Lifesaving book for families with a loved one with BPD/BPD traits. It’s transformed, not only how I now see BPD, but also how to effectively support loved ones with this disorder—giving hope to the entire family. Also, The author offers workshops and webinars that are extremely helpful. Don’t waste your time & money on other BPD books.”

5.0 out of 5 stars An essential book for anyone with loved ones who struggle with this disorder.

“Prior to this book I had read several self-help books on the subject, but my particular relationship with my BPD loved one was only getting worse and worse. This book helped me to understand what she was going through and to approach her with compassion and empathy. It really worked! Now I have a much better relationship with her and I believe this book saved us from total disaster. Whereas other books preach boundaries and borders, this one helps the reader to understand that whatever they are going through, it's not their fault, nor the sufferers fault. The anger and abuse are not about us. Once we learn to let it go over our heads and see the world through their eyes, it's much easier to cope. Thank you for a wonderful guide to coping with this horrible affliction.”

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